COME FASTER – THE BEST TIPS FOR WOMEN
Many women want to come faster – but it just doesn’t work and doesn’t work. But instead of building up unnecessary orgasm frustration, it is important to always approach the subject with a certain lightness. Pressure, stress and fear are poison on the way to climax. According to various studies, not nearly half of all women regularly reach orgasm during sex – often the path to the peak of pleasure is simply too long. The reasons for this vary. Nevertheless, there are ways and means to help the orgasm on the jump. We explain to you how it works!
The best tips to come faster
Sex positions that help women come faster
To be able to come faster as a woman, the right sex positions are important. Positions in which the partner can stimulate both the G-spot and the clitoris are favorable – double is better. In addition, positions that resemble sweaty gymnastic exercises are more of a hindrance on the way to the Big O. So make yourself comfortable instead of risking a nasty calf cramp.
Butt up, is the motto! Bed your butt lying on your back on a pillow to allow a steeper and deeper penetration. In addition, the clitoris is additionally pampered with each thrust. Alternatively, you can tighten your legs and rest your pelvis on your partner’s thighs – here, too, the angle is right for optimal G-spot stimulation.
In the spoon position, your partner can penetrate you from behind and optimally reach your G-spot on the front wall of your vagina, plus he still has one hand free to additionally caress your nipples or clitoris.
On top, most women reach orgasm faster. After all, she has control over rhythm, tempo and depth. If you lean back in the riding position and support yourself with your hands behind you, your partner has unhindered access to pleasure your clitoris.
The majority of women love to be pampered orally. Make yourself comfortable lying down, bend your legs slightly and let your lover “do the work”. If the fingers come into play here, it’s really hot.
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Pelvic floor training: be strong!
The most effective way to actively do something yourself to achieve orgasm regularly is pelvic floor training. It is not for nothing that the muscles in the pelvic floor are called the love muscle. A trained and strengthened pelvic floor ensures that the vagina can “grip” more firmly during penetration, which increases friction, thus stimulation and in turn the chance of an orgasm.
To train the love muscle, you need to know where it is located and how to tense it. To do this, you can simply stop when you urinate – this is where the pelvic floor muscles, or more precisely the PC muscle, come into play. Now the training can begin. Tense the muscle daily – for example in the office – for five seconds, then relax it again for ten seconds and repeat the whole thing ten times.
Love balls can also be used for targeted training. Wear the love balls while you move – while shopping, showering or exercising. Just 10 to 15 minutes a day is enough to strengthen the muscles in the long term. The training devices are available in different sizes and weight classes. As a beginner, you should start with light love balls.
Avoid distractions: Concentration, please!
The female desire is an extremely unstable structure. One small slip-up and the house of cards collapses – and must be painstakingly rebuilt. Disturbing factors during sex can be of many kinds. Often it’s your own thoughts, a sudden change in your partner’s rhythm, a ringing cell phone or a lack of time.
You can put a stop to many of these lust killers in advance. Of course, sex is not always a planned thing. There’s nothing wrong with a quickie between brushing your teeth and washing your hair in the morning before work – but that’s no guarantee of an orgasm. The little time you have puts you under unnecessary pressure, and a quick glance at the clock can cause your rising pleasure curve to plummet. Shortly before falling asleep is also not the ideal time, because tiredness does not help to come faster.
So look for moments when you are well rested and have no obligations. How about a nap on Saturday morning? The kids are with the grandparents, work is still far away and house cleaning can wait – perfect! Also, make sure you have your cell phone muted. A running radio is also a disturbing factor that can be eliminated. Just now your favorite song is playing and suddenly: news. And who can listen to news about politics and the economy?
Stifle it: with full bladder to the orgasm
What seems a bit strange at first glance is an extremely helpful tip on the way to a faster orgasm during sex or masturbation. It’s better to postpone going to the toilet until later. A full bladder can actually help you climax, as it exerts additional pressure from the inside, which increases the irritation. By the way, the right measure is crucial here. An overfull bladder has the exact opposite effect – touching the abdominal wall can be perceived as unpleasant and the pleasure fades.
The 3 best orgasm toys
The orgasm miracle
Your clitoris is lightly sucked by the small opening of the Womanizer at the front of the toy and stimulated by pulsating pressure waves from gentle to intense. This way, many women experience a completely new kind of pleasure, which is crowned by particularly penetrating orgasms. Due to the almost touch-free stimulation, the clitoris can also not be overstimulated.
Rabbit vibrator
Double orgasm
Ucino is a unique Rabbit vibrator that fits precisely thanks to its two strongly curved arms. Inside, the vibrator pampers the G-spot with 7 vibration rhythms, while the clitoris is also stimulated with 7 vibration modes. The material of the toy is very velvety and has a smooth surface, so the Rabbit can be inserted extremely gently.
Love balls
Orgasm training
Love balls are best worn vaginally every day, for up to 15 minutes. Keep moving while doing so – like showering or shopping. With regular use, the balls increase your ability to orgasm and provide stronger vaginal muscles and more control.
