BDSM PENALTIES – THE BEST IDEAS

BDSM punishments follow their own rules and goals. They create more connection with the partner, help to let off steam, try new toys or just to spice up the love play in general.

BDSM games are about power and submission. One partner takes the dominant active role while the other submissively submits passively. The BDSM punishments are used to control and chastise the submissive part. Each of the partners enjoys special pleasure in his role. Important: Act only in mutual agreement and agree on a safeword!

Before the joint game, the respective limits should be sounded out. This way misunderstandings are avoided and the BDSM game remains an all-around tingling pleasure for both partners. So that you don’t run out of ideas for intense BDSM punishments, we have collected a few unusual inspirations for varied punishments!

Collection of ideas for BSDM punishments

The household does not do itself

Well cleaned is half done! Was your submissive partner naughty again? Then give him or her a few hours of housework. The dominant partner can lean back and watch with pleasure.

To make the punishment even more effective, tie up one hand of the punished. So he has to do the housework with one hand. Or use a sexy dress code during the game. Men are allowed to wear provocative pantyhose while the woman does the housecleaning with a slip ouvert.

Tip: The license to orgasm! Only when all the chores are done to satisfaction, there is also permission to orgasm during the subsequent lovemaking.

Hand play forbidden

Hands off! The submissive partner should spoil the dominant partner. The dominant partner is allowed to use everything except the hands. If this is violated, the dominant partner may tie his hands behind his back. Now the latter has full control and can subdue the bound for further pleasurable services. Click here for an overview of common bondage positions for more inspiration!

Remote controlled lust

With hot radio waves into your panties, a remote-controlled vibro egg or anal plug offers very special intimate pleasures. Both of you are out shopping or on the train. There are people all around you. A vibrating toy (either a vibro-egg or a vibrating anal plug) is hidden in the panties of the submissive partner. Unseen by others, the dominant partner can now send the pleasure waves with the remote control at any time. The control is completely in his hands.

But the hot foreplay still has a catch. If the submissive partner becomes impetuous and lets on that he likes it, the game is over immediately and there is no further satisfaction for that day.

Feast for the eyes

Watch an erotic movie together. If necessary, draw lots beforehand, who may be the submissive part and who the dominant. The submissive partner is tied up. Now start the movie. Every time a certain word is spoken or a certain object is seen in the movie, the dominant may spank the tied up person.

Ice Ice Baby

Get hot and cold passion with some ice cubes. Take the icy pleasure dispensers and let them make their rounds over the partner’s body. Over the neck, the nipples and the intimate areas, the icy pleasure promises tingling rounds of punishment.

With a sex toy made of metal or glass, the game can be performed just as well. The advantage here is that the pleasure dispensers can be heated as well as cooled.

Tickle sex

You can achieve a torturously beautiful punishment with a little tickling. The submissive partner is tied up so he or she can’t escape. The dominant partner then takes a feather or simply his hands to tickle the bound.

Count Down

While you keep order with juicy blows, let the submissive partner count the blows. A number of spankings is set in advance. Let’s say for example 20. The submissive now knows exactly what to expect and has to count down the strokes. If he suddenly stops counting or enjoys the spanking too much, you have to start over until the lesson is memorized.

Lay the cards

You can also write each of these punishments and types of play on a card and collect them in a box. If the submissive partner was naughty, he or she gets to draw a card themselves and their punishment is determined by chance. Various BDSM role-playing games can also provide even more pepper in the penalty box.

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